'Fashionably late'. Arriving a few minutes late is fine, but any more and you will risk anything from unnecessary stress, annoyed guests, or worse: registrars, vicars, priest etc cancelling your ceremony due to the impact on a following wedding. This can happen! Ask one of your wedding party to be the time keeper.
Bouquet. I tend to prefer the larger bouquet for the bride (slightly smaller for bridesmaids, as they can be a good ‘prop’ for the photographs.
Rain - There is nothing that can be done to stop it, so we go with the flow! It rarely rains without a break, but it does, I come prepared with portable lights if required for indoor shots.
Alcohol. Pace yourself! It is fine to calm the nerves before the ceremony with a small one if you like, but you have a long day/evening ahead, so take it easy during the day! This is good advise for your immediate wedding party too.
Confetti, don’t rely on all the guests to bring their own.
Best Man speech. Remember their are often young and elderly guests present, so lewd jokes can fall flat, cheeky is fine but keep it clean and don’t go too far with the Groom’s previous!
Makeup photography problem. Avoid any make-up with SPF in it, including mineral veils/powders, as it can cause silver reflections particularly when flash is used.
Guest photographers. Your call , but from experience, my strong advise it to ask family and guests to put their cameras and smartphones away during the ceremony. Ask the official to announce it, and you won’t feel awkward. Guests are there to witness and enjoy your wedding, plus my photos of them holding up a device is not ideal Worse, they can get in the way of important shots. You have paid for a professional with professional cameras!
Chewing Gum! - it may calm the nerves but can result in unattractive open-mouthed shots! A big no-no for the couple and the wedding party.
Family/Group Shots - this is the part of the day that can cause unnecessary time away from your guests and irritation if not planned properly. Create a list, and don’t go overboard with the number of combinations. I will help you compile the list in a logical order and explain how we will make this happen smoothly.
Finally. This is a happy occasion, try not to let the nerves take over. Once the day arrives, take every moment in and allow the day to unfold. If you book me, you can be sure you will have photos of moments you want to revisit, and moments you never even saw, so relax and enjoy YOUR big day.